17 thoughts on “Sex and Narcissists (Is BDSM Sanctioned Abuse?)

  1. very sensetive subject, I really have been wanting to approach it in my videos but have not managed yet. well done with this, you made the differences very clear.

  2. The bpd was only one i could be myself, it was i timacy, love, plus best friend, passion, on good days

  3. Very good point. A person who doesn’t have control over themselves shouldn’t ask for control over others. I wish I knew this a long time ago. I also wish I knew how to just walk away.

  4. What about female in a submissive role? She wanted a D/s and her as a sub. I never heard of it. I tried but she’d say I wasn’t doing it right. Then when I asked who I was being compared to she’d say I was the only one she trusted to do it with!! Nonsense.

  5. Chase me, i love 2 run from love…take away my doubt, lack of trust…..take me like a cave man, or woman n2 the dungeon, haha

  6. Its literally the same woman, diff face….buys me presents then ignores me, looks remotely like my mother, ends w this dear john letter ..it says, this self absorbtion….and my xmas present 2 u this year is u….she said, do u know why i hate god. Cuz im jealous i know u love him more than me, and without me ull b fine. She said she envied the dancing sun, cuz u c i want this 4 myself. And she said, fuck mental illness, i destroyed u on purpose. I did it intentionally cuz i was jealous of ur brilliance. But while we argued over which one of us was the devil, we saw the face of god every day. Dear beatrice, bear goddess, my moon as i rise, climb like dante, this mountain 2 heaven, sink 2 the deepest pits of hell, drop out the bottom, like drillin a hole threw earth 2 china, n2 the 5th dimension….i will always love u…guess well both have 2 try n find a diffrent kind of happiness.

  7. C, we were 2 woman, angry, wanted control, tired of bein doormat whores 2 our fathers, wizards of oz…lost n the mirror…..i cant let go unless i have no choice, control…i wated 2 b free 2 love, as a slave 2 a butiful woman. And, the pain made the voices, noise n my head, xtasy, and time stopped. I didnt mind being an object. I dont like flowers. I want 2 b devoured. I dont wana go 2 france, ballroom dance, romance, but passion. All thats left is menapause n death, lets stay 2gether 4ever young, punk f$%kn rock. Well both look good at our funeral. This love i had 4 her, it grew n grew, like a monster, an octopus, tentacles, and felt so good, i was almost willing 2 die 4 it. There is no god n psychology and no pill 4 evil. Just timothy leary, lsd. Neiztche is dead. From a broken heart. Darkness.

  8. A narcissist can be into BDSM. No he may not grant allowing her to use a "safe word" because in doing so, that would give her that power & control. But I know narcissist men who manipulate & force the girl to perform BDSM. So yes narcissist men can be very much into BDSM they just won't grant her the use of a "safe word" to be used. Great video by the way

  9. I wish there would be more information about it. Narcissist are usually dominant in bed. And they brought up into bdsm this creepy thing called “poly” which is abusive.
    And they make it look like it’s normal.
    Anyone who is a poly narcissistic and this should be a trait that indicates NPD
    Anything with poly is abusive and should not be involve in bdsm

  10. Thank you for this video, and for speaking so frankly. How about if someone is using bdsm to obtain narcissitic supply?

  11. I was getting a lot of dental work done around when this video was created, so my speech might sound a little funny as my mouth and tongue were so sore, Did this video about BDSM and narcissism make sense to you? Please share in the comments, like this video and subscribe to my channel today!!💕

  12. I have mixed feelings about BDSM. The original motto was safe, sane and consensual, but who gets to define what is safe, or sane. Where does the line end? its an interesting moral quandry, like for an extreme example there was a man in germany who concented to having another dude cut off his dick and eated. They both wanted to do it, but does that make it ok? more commonly I see young women in 24/7 slave relationships with men….and I donno how I feel about that. like theres a difference between a little naughty fun, and people who are essentually living in a concentual abusive relationship where the other person controls thier every move. Even if they say its what they want, i just feel like its unhealthy, and wont cause either person to grow in a positive way.

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